Yum Yum Yum…
When I was growing up kale was SO not cool. I don’t think my mum even tried to force me to eat it – which is saying something!
Now I ADORE it, it excites me to head to the farmer’s market to grab a bunch.
This is my second favourite recipe, but a lot easier than the first. I’ll post the other soon, but here’s a bit of magic to keep you going. This keeps for at least 2-3 days if you don’t double dip, and keep it well sealed. In fact the dressing and flavour improves lots.
Preparing kale for any salad, I take the leaves off the big stalk (that’s the bitter bit), then I will always at some point, massage the leaves of the kale to cook/break it down.
What you need:
2 tablespoons of olive oil, or avocado oil
1 tablespoon of cider vinegar
3 tablespoons of lemon juice
1 teaspoon dijon mustard
1 tablespoon chopped basil
1 clove garlic
1 bunch of kale (massaged)
I apple, chopped
A small head or 6 leaves of romaine lettuce, chopped
1/4 cup of raisins
I like to add a little oil to the kale leaves, a pinch of salt and massage… 5 mins will do, but longer is better. This ‘cooks’ it, and releases the juices.
Assemble the salad ingredients (kale, apple, lettuce).
In a small bowl, put the other ingredients together, whisk and let stand.
Then assemble all, and let sit for at least 5 mins
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It’s Time For Spring! 9 Steps To Celebrate The New
Today is the first day of spring in the northern hemisphere, referred to as “Imbolc” – it is also the feast day of St. Brigid which is celebrated worldwide. The Goddess Brigid, whose temple is in County Kildare, represents love, new beginnings, trust, and preparing the land for new seeds. The light has returned!
A super powerful day in itself, we also had a new moon a few days ago AND Chinese New Year of the Rooster.
Sooo, it’s a POWERFUL day to envision, dream and release. Think about those new years resolutions, or intentions… meditate on how they are going, celebrate, rather than beat yourself up if you’ve dropped some of them. That’s pretty much natural, so be gentle with yourself and use the power of nature to have another new beginning.
Below are a few suggestions as to how you can make the most of this super powerful transition time.
It’s Time For Spring! 9 Steps To Celebrate The New
- Visions Dreams Goals
Write down what you DO want on a white piece of paper. Imagine your life just as you would love it, and get clear on how you would love your ideal day to be. You are preparing the land (your life) for the new…
- Let Go
Write down what you want to let go of, and either safely burn the piece of paper or tear it up and throw it away… imagining letting go of what no longer serves you.
- Renewal, Rebirth – Focus On The New Light
If you have an altar, put some white items like feathers, shells and candles on it to focus on the new coming into your life. The days are getting longer, the sun is returning. It is a time of renewal, rebirth and cleansing so make the most of this powerful energy. You are energetically and metaphorically making room for the new, while signalling the release of what you do NOT want in your life.
Burn a candle in each room of your home to welcome back in the light of the sun, and the manifestation of your dreams. If you have incense or sage, burn that to clear the energy and space for the new. You can do this a few days either side of February 1. If you have a busy schedule, you can just imagine clearing the energy in your home, and office.
Be real about where you are in relation to your vision, or what you want to manifest, then get clear on what exactly you want 6 months from now. Be as tangible as you can…. How will you DEFINITIVELY know that you have manifested your dream?
- Be Present (The Power of Now… Wow)
Be gentle and FEEL what comes up when you see the gap between where you are and what you want… if it’s excitement, GREAT.. if it’s fear or similar, just feel it in your body… just being with it for a few seconds will transform it into POWER to manifest your dream.
Think about how you can contribute, if your dream is not already about serving others or the world, then see if you can add that ingredient – it makes manifesting what you love a lot easier! Service is an important ingredient in manifesting what we love.
You have done AMAZING work so far. You have set in stone your new vision. Take a deep breath while making a noise as you breathe in, and out… ideally the word ‘Aloha’ which breathes love and new life, love and divinity into your vision.
- TAKE ACTION…
Most importantly you must take action every day – even if it’s just IMAGINING your dream. It will not manifest on its own, daily action steps are what creates lasting change and wonderful lives.
Why not book a complimentary“Fantastic Life Fix 2017” strategy session – during this session you will:
- Get clarity on your BIG vision. The vision of your heart, what you came into this world to manifest; purpose, passion, abundance.
- Define what is standing in the way of manifesting it.
- Lay out clear steps to take to create what you love.
- Leave the session energised, renewed and ready to be the change you wish to see!
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The word Imbolc means literally “in the belly” in the old Irish Neolithic language it comes from the pregnant bellies of the ewes. We have the feast of St Brigid, Goddess of Light on February 1, so it’s time to trust your dreams and visions…. that are held in your sacred hara (another word for ‘belly’).
Make sure you are focussing on what you want… if figures in politics, or celebrities, or others are triggering you, then bring your attention WITHIN… could this be your creation? Do they represent what you detest? Simply acknowledge that they might be triggering you because they are a teacher to show you what you still need to heal. My favourite line ‘you gotta feel it to heal it’. FEEL what they are triggering whether it be anger, fear, hopelessness… breathe into the feeling… then come back to peace (which naturally happens when you just breathe and be with the feeling). The external world, mirrors your internal world… it is all just a projection. When you feel amazing, your world is amazing. I promise 🙂
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What are the people who irritate you showing you?
What are politicians etc. trying to teach you or show you?
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Muchas love to you beautiful one and Happy spring, Imbolc and St. Brigid’s Day.
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Here’s a tool to guide you through Christmas so you have a SUPER awesome time 🙂
We’re at the end of a MAHUSIVE cycle… in Shamanic Terms, the number 9 – which is the year we’ve just had (2 + 0 + 1 + 6 = 9) is sometimes considered the year of commitment… to your path and yourself.
Sooo that means next year, we’ve got a one year (2 + 0 + 1 + 7 = 10 and 10 + 1 = 1)…. It’s time for NEW BEGINNINGS…. sooo exciting. The 1 year in Shamanic terms represents TRUST… it’s time to trust the process we’ve been through, trust that we ARE already DIVINE MAGNIFICENT PERFECT BEINGS… and live life according to that.
We’ll be walking in the light of our GREATNESS and literally every day now, since solstice the light is growing…. OUR light is growing. Look for ways you can see your life improving – even in the perceived ‘tough’ times – remember there are always SUCH gifts.
I love you – Happy Christmas x
Anxiety & Panic Attacks; 3 Tips For Happiness & Success
Do you ever suffer with anxiety or panic attacks? I share the Top 3 Tips For Anxiety and Panic… and why there’s a MASSIVE gift waiting for you. Often, the thing we fear most is the thing our heart yearns for more than we can imagine…
It’s early morning, the sun is breaking through the top of the mountain range out of my window and I was instantly called to write this piece as I got a sense of panic in my heart. My heart rate increased and that’s it…. luckily I was able to stop it there.
There was a time when I would go straight into a panic attack, followed by depression, and worse. My mind would come up with all sorts of reasons why it was happening which would only exacerbate the situation. Before I knew it, I’d be off, creating some crazy, dramatic scenario of doom in my life with the crazy monkey mind in control. Often, I wouldn’t even realise my heart was beating fast, and the thoughts had control until it was too late. It was an automatic reaction, starting with a thought, a feeling and then transitioning in warp speed time to the feeling of impending doom, and fear for survival.
Definition of Anxiety
The Oxford English Dictionary definition of ‘anxiety‘ is:
A feeling of worry, nervousness, or unease about something with an uncertain outcome.
A Strong desire or concern to do something or for something to happen.
In my opinion, it is an unbearable feeling. It is usually totally out of proportion with the thought, or situation that triggered it, and it makes you feel like you’re going to die! It’s very often linked with depression, which is at the far end of the spectrum to it, a slower vibration, but the feeling can be just as soul destroying. The good news is that it’s just your body giving you a signal; read on….
What To Do?
If you experience any of these symptoms, the short term solutions are:
- Acknowledge it. Don’t fight it. Admit to yourself what is happening… “It is just a panic attack/anxiety, I am not going to die”. Notice that it is just a physical reaction.
- Breathe! When you acknowledge, rather than fight the attack, and the feelings that come with it, you step into your power. You become CONSCIOUS.
- Get Physical. Get clarity on what coping mechanisms work for you. Feel your feet planted on the ground. Shake your hands, run on the spot, or dance! There are some great aromatherapy oils, and rescue remedies (get recommendations from your local health food store) that can give immediate relief. Having clarity on what triggers you so that you have them handy at all times – whether needed or not is great for peace of mind.
“The only difference between fear and excitement, is the breath.”
Anxiety and depression are two of the the most common illnesses worldwide. In the US alone, they cost about $40 billion per year!
Remember to stop and smell the flowers….
“A ship in port is safe, but that’s not what ships are built for.”
How To Prevent It?
Long term, many would recommend seeing a healthcare professional (and I guess, as a professional I have to recommend that), but there are other ways to deal with it.
I have worked with a lot of women who suffered from anxiety for many years, and they have transformed into wildly successful businesswomen. Their big dreams are manifesting, and many more are STILL coming true. Their relationships have improved, their self esteem has grown… The anxiety was a BIG prompt for them to change their life… so they could receive more of its magnificence.
Many of these women had been living a life of compromise, they had money worries, they were not happy with their relationships or health – in short and they were unhappy, miserable, and some had almost given up on life….
More often than not, somewhere, deep down, hidden in their heart was a dream. A big dream that simply wouldn’t go away…. no matter how much they tried to squash it back down, and no matter how many years they gained behind them…..
Instead, it bubbled up with all sorts of ailments, unhappiness, and manifested in anxiety and depression. It was a dream that they thought was impossible… Some days they would hide under the duvet, too full of misery, and hatred for themselves… for not taking that big leap. Other days it manifested as anxiety or depression. They simply couldn’t bring themselves to go out the front door…. it was insidious, it crept up like a cold wind bringing fear, and tales of a life half lived. More often than not, they were not even conscious of what was happening… they just drowned in a life half-lived, with a vague smile on their face…. but sadness in their heart and misery in their being. If any of this resonates, remember you CAN manifest your dream and …
You do not need ‘fixing’.
You do not need healing.
You do not need to analyse the situation or yourself.
You do not need to control it.
You do not need to judge it, or judge yourself for having it.
In the moment, you simply need to do NOTHING… nothing which involves FEELING it. It might seem super scary, but there’s a powerful system I use with my clients which allows them to easily, effortlessly, feel and heal whatever is going on with them. Unless you actually FEEL it, it will keep coming up, triggered by anything and everything until you go INTO the feeling.
In that feeling, there is a POWERFUL message!
I have a message for you too – I am here to tell you – YOU ARE GOOD ENOUGH!
You CAN manifest that dream. You are not here to work all the days of your life in a gray office. Whatever your dream is, you CAN manifest it. We are not given dreams and desires, without the ability to manifest them. You ARE here to do work you love, to have a fantastic relationship, to write your book, whatever YOUR dream is. So, throw off the bowlines, push away from the shore and start taking action on manifesting your dream! If you don’t know where to start, contact me and we can have a chat and set up a plan of action… guided by the heart, taking the head along on the journey.
You are here to leave a legacy, you are here to step OUT of your comfort zone (which is really a discomfort zone), there is MUCH more comfort when you are out in the world, shining as you were born to do. Creating what you came here to create!
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“Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn’t do than by the ones you did do.
So throw off the bowlines.
Sail away from the safe harbour.
Catch the trade winds in your sails.
Explore. Dream. Discover.”
Extra Tip – Acupressure
If you get that anxious feeling, there’s a great acupressure point called “Heart 7” – which is also great for insomnia. Hold it for a few seconds, and your heart will calm down, and your mind will relax.
Click here for information on how to locate it, or simply hold out a hand with the palm up, then with the thumb of the other hand, follow the dip between the bones of the ring and little fingers, up to the wrist crease… you will find a dip, this is Heart 7. Hold it gently, while breathing deeply and relax and enjoy. Some acupressure points are contraindicated if you are pregnant, but this one is okay.
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A new moon is a time to herald in new beginnings… AND so that you can CONSCIOUSLY let go of what no longer serves.
Here are some tips to ensure you have a POWERFUL, fun, magic manifesting month!
- Set an intention and CHOOSE what you would LOVE to change or have manifested by this time next month.
- Visualise what you would love. Get really clear, what’s your ideal day looking like? Most importantly, actually FEEL the feeling of it.
- Now you’ve done the work (apart from taking intuitively, heart orientated action), so forget about it. Just let it go… Relax in the knowing that it, or something better will manifest.
- Keep your vibration high – exercise, meditation, watching your thoughts, avoiding gossip, being GENTLE with yourself. Watch your environment – feed yourself with yummy, healthy, food, water, thoughts – stay away from the negative in the media and others!
- Treat others how you would like to be treated.
- Give yourself a flipping break! We can be SO hard on ourselves, at the end of the day it’s only US who is standing in the way of what we love. So, be gentle with yourself. Believe that everything is happening for your highest good.
- Just before the new moon, and 1 – 3 days after is a great time to focus on what you want to release and let go of. This leaves room for what you DO want to manifest. Do you want to let go of certain beliefs (I’m not lovable, I’m not good enough, I’m not capable and so on …). Remember your beliefs might (well, they always are so you might need some help getting clarity on your beliefs. You are either focussed on what you love (and that manifests), OR you are focussed on your beliefs (and you manifest more of that). Do you want to welcome in a new discipline like regular exercise or meditation? The moon is powerful, it controls the ocean tides after all. You are mainly water, therefore, you have the power of the moon to support all of your new beginnings and wishes.
- BELIEVE and CHANGE…. Really – it can be that simple. Look for signs of how fabulous your life is already…. look for things manifesting around you. Obviously you have got to be ‘real’ too, so when things aren’t working that needs attention… but most of your attention needs to be on gratitude.
The secret number 9 key, (as added on November 7, 2018), a few hours before the new moon….
Move into the vibration of love… the best way I’ve found to do this is to sip some sacred cacao – it has to be in the right measure, with the right intention. If you’d like to know more, to buy some, or to take part in one of my Soul Discovery Adventures just message me. When you enter into the vibration of LOVE, that is the vibe of meditation, healing and manifestation.
This is why we’re here… to master LOVE!
Come On! Let’s Play!
(Check out this blog click here, for the different stages to manifestation).
New Moon Dates & Times in your area….
The time before the new moon, as the old one dwindles is the void, or ‘dark moon’ as it is known. It occurs 2/3 days before and after the new moon, when her power is still waning (before the new moon), and waxing or building (after the new moon). It is a powerful time for to plant seeds as the power of the moon works positively with them. It’s also a great time to metaphorically plant seeds in the form of new ideas, inspiration, dreams.
This photo is a visit I made to see Goddess Pele who is a MASSIVE presence in Hawaii. Her home is the fire – the volcanoes, the lava… I visited her to ask for guidance on one of my BIG dreams, and I had just had a ceremony and made an offering to her.
I was literally blown away when I saw that she is coming out of my heart in the photo (the ginormous volcano is behind me)…. She showed me that YOU have the power – it is within you, when you move past your challenges, negative thoughts and beliefs you unleash the power within… YOU CAN DO IT!
Here’s a little new moon exercise for you. She is VERY present in this photo, so tune into her and ask her for guidance;
A)) What do I need to let go of?
B)) What is it time to welcome in?
C)) What is the dream I’ve been too afraid to manifest until now?
If you would like clarity on your BIG dream, the one your heart wants to manifest (rather than your head), and know the path your soul is calling you to take, hit me up and we can chat about your options.
I love you – happy new moon!
Remember BELIEVE and CHANGE!
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Follow Your Bliss & Resistance
The journey from the head to the heart is one of the hardest journeys you can take, such a short distance, but what a journey!
I have just realised that it’s not the promise of my dreams manifesting that keeps me going. At long last, it’s actually the journey itself that I’m enjoying. So many of my dreams have manifested – and they are even better than I ever imagined, and I’m excited to see the magic that emerges on the path of many, many more manifesting. What I’m learning to love more than the destination, are the learnings, adventures and growth walking the path that inspire and excite my heart and soul.
It reminds me of the words inscribed above the entrance of the Temple at Delphi, Greece; the oracle: “Above all else, know thyself.” Luckily, with that knowing comes self love…..
“Follow your bliss.
If you do follow your bliss,
you put yourself on a kind of track
that has been there all the while waiting for you,
and the life you ought to be living
is the one you are living.
When you can see that,
you begin to meet people
who are in the field of your bliss,
and they open the doors to you.
I say, follow your bliss and don’t be afraid,
and doors will open
where you didn’t know they were going to be.
If you follow your bliss,
doors will open for you that wouldn’t have opened for anyone else.”
Resistance (Or The ‘Resist Dance’ if you’re avoiding it)
All sorts of resistance can crop up on the heart path. The resistance comes cloaked in many disguises; illness, blocks, doubts, beliefs, challenges, accidents and so on and so forth.
I made a short video about this, but I’d love to know how Resistance shows up in your life and what you do about it.
After I made this video, I continued to be gentle with myself, and the day after, I woke up between 5 & 6 am (my bliss time), I downloaded some ideas and wrote for an hour. Then I got up and made myself some breakfast to take to the beach, walked the dog on the beach and cliffs for about an hour, went for a swim (!!! my TOTAL bliss !!! but something I strangely don’t do too often even though the beach is at the end of my road). Then I wrote my ‘artists pages’; simply put three pages of whatever flows out onto the page; it’s a wonderful way to clear the mind and start the day (a la Julia Cameron in ‘The Artist’s Way’). Oh yes, and I had my toasted brie sandwich when I came out of the water – HEAVEN, it was still warm as it had been in the sun all that time. Cold disappeared… seems like I’ve moved through my resistance 😉
Note to self, write another blog soon about ‘ascension symptoms’ (illnesses that appear as the vibration of the planet and OUR vibration rise), but they are not ‘normal’ illness, and with TLC can disappear almost instantly. They can manifest as tiredness, lethargy, depression, insomnia, illness of any kind… they are all down to our vibration changing. The more you attach to ‘the illness you ‘think’ you have, the more power you’re giving it, and the more it will manifest. Instead, have a choice above all else to ‘be healthy’.
Feel free to connect with me if you’d like to learn how to have a love, rather than fear motivated focus, so that you manifest amazing health all the time, guided by the intuition and heart.
OMG I feel amaaaazing now, considering the change I’ve experienced in less than 24 hours just through doing what I love.
I LOVEEEE you!
Focus creates reality is one of my favourite premises.
It reminds me of an ancient principle which goes as follows:
Energy flows where attention goes.
Where attention goes, energy flows.
It’s deep and I could talk about it for ages but today I want to share a little magic story. I was walking along the beach, totally in awe at the beauty of nature, and my luck and the magic and absolute beauty where I live. I said to myself, with a big grin on myself, marvelling at the light weaving in and out, as the palm trees swayed lovingly, kissing the exuberant blue of heaven above; ‘Oh my God…I live in Magic Land.’ I uttered… smiling as I continued to wander along the beach.
Anyway I walked along and after witnessing more shows of splendid beauty, a rainbow appeared, not in the sky, but under a palm tree… the red, orange, yellow, green, blue, indigo and violet arcing from the ground to the trunk of the tree…..
And then… if that wasn’t magical enough, the colours hinting at the possibility of ethereal beings being present, look who was sitting at the other side of the rainbow…
Wherever our attention is focused, that is what we manifest.
That’s why it’s sooo important to focus on what you love. I am not recommending that you turn a blind eye to other stuff – the ‘stuff’, your worries, anything that is a concern… be real about it, don’t bury your head in the sand, but don’t focus on it alone. Put most of your focus on how you would love life to be… then that is what manifests. It’s like shareholders in the company, if you have 51% shares, then you have power in the company. It’s the same with our visions, if you’re focussed 51% or more on what you love… then that is what will manifest. Same with worries… if you’re focussed on the path you DON’T want to walk.. that will manifest. I spent a lot of time recently focussed on things that might go wrong… I hit a tough time in my life, and even though I know this stuff, I couldn’t help it.. sooo I manifested some grim ole times. Maybe I did so, so that I could share with such wisdom now. I was focussed on the path I feared… and yes, that manifested.
So, focus on what you WOULD love.
Keep my favourite question at the forefront of your mind… ‘What would I love?’
When you have a problem, and you keep your focus on it, and you apportion blame outside of yourself, so you continue to manifest more of the same problems. If you do not take 100% responsibility for your life and everything in it, you are powerless to change! You will keep manifesting the same situation. When you accept 100% responsibility you are taking a powerful step towards changing the reality you do not love, and in turn, manifesting your dreams.
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Your Dreams ARE Manifesting!
We’ve just had a super powerful solar eclipse, and a new moon. The energies are HIGH – high for manifesting. Although you might also be feeling headachey, coldy, moods up and down… a lot of the commonly referred to ‘Ascension Symptoms’. They are different now, because we are more light, having got rid of a great deal of our density. We’re now clearing patterns, memories, so we can move into our new world and RECEIVE our dreams. You know you can change those in 30 days or less? It’s true! We have the Vernal Equinox on March 19/20 and we’re in a process of rapid acceleration towards a higher vibration after that date. So, be gentle with yourself – keep focussing on your dreams and visions, and when you’re guided to nap/rest – PLEASE do so. That’s the time you connect with your soul, and get your mind out of the way for more downloads, clarity and guidance.
Here’s an inspirational vlog from me to remind you how ace you are and you ARE in the right place at the right time.
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Happy International Women’s Day to you!
The theme this year is “#OneDayIWill”… watch the vid for more info! Have a magical, marvellous, mystical day you wonderful woman – and you man.